When u...

When u pick ur first word

mummy give u a kiss

When u take ur first step

mummy give u a hug

When u start climbing stairs

mummy get so worried

to see u fell down

mummy has tears falling her cheek

And NOw...

from a word u became a debater

from a step u became a traveller

U r now climbs up success ladder

mummy still has tears in her eyes

just for different reason than before

she now proud of you...

HOw do you measure ROMANTIC??

Lets talk about being Romantic today...What is romantic in your perception?

1. Being so lovely to each other
2. Remember and celebrate all important date such as birthday, anniversary etc...
3. Say good morning..good night, I love u everyday
4. HUgs and kiss each other everyday
5. Be sensitive to each other feeling
6. Calling each other pet name (provided a good one)
7. Have Surprise event or gift...

Those are the things we always heard from everyone when we talk about being Romantic.. To me, my personal opinion about being Romantic is..can be an additonal of the above list....

a) A husband able to be an Imam for a wife and kids. After every solat, a wife kiss a hubby hand....thats romantic..
b) Aplogise to each other everyday before nights fall to make sure if we die that night, we have forgive each other wrong doing. Thats romantic...
c) When you wakes each other to perform solat at night..thats romantic
d) Helping each other of housework...cooking, houskeeping,taking care of kids...thats romantic
e) Taking care of each other either in good shape of health or worst shape of health..thats truly romantic
f) Be in touch every time far apart...
g) Be truthful of yourself and your partner...love each other unconditionally till the end...

My dad will call my mum more than 3 times a day everytime they are apart...
My dad will always makes sure my mum happy all the time...If my mum in sad mode, he will gone crazy and start calling me for advice...heheheheh..how sweet.
They have pet name for each other..
They go to the mosque together every maghrib and have supper on the way home or they will perform solat together at home..lovely
My dad doesnt know how to give surprise party or gift but he never forget the important date.
My dad doesnt know how to express his love by hugs n kisses or even 'I love you' every day but he always comes home for lunch and dinner...Always bring something for my mum if he has to go for busisness lunch or dinner.
My dad never forget a souvenir for my mum every single time he go out of town.
You wont get 'A Congrats' if u did good in your exam or anything but without fail he will bring you out to celebrate or buy you a gift.
My dad doesnt help much in cooking,housekeeping and he doesnt even know how to operate washing machine (its true, I am not exxagerate here) but he always appreciate my mum by finish off all the meal she cooked,never complain the way my mum iron his clothes,drive my mum to anywhere my mum wants to go,buy everything my mum needs and he will make sure to have a vacation at least once a year to the place my mum wants to be...(and I usually will become their travel agent)
My dad is excellant in preparing Nasi Beriani singapore style with Ayam Masak Merah...
The most important is ...
My dad always be there whenever you need him....

So , do u think my dad is romantic?...I think my dad is a truly romantic person .....
As human being, we cannot expect to have it all....to have some of it which fit our needs in daily life is good enough... :-)

Just Few things...

1. Traffic so bad lately..any idea why? obviously the number of cars suddenly increased.. due to..
a) so many singles out there..so many cars wt only a driver inside
b) even married couples, cannot share car due to diff place of work...diff direction and timing
c) nowadays students drive to school, college, university
d) perhaps...many guy practise polygamy, hence all wives owns car .. :-)

2. How to get rid of a person u had enough??
a) tell him/her direct to his/her face...not so many ppl have courage to do so..as malays always put.."tak sampai hatilah"
b) ignore the person untill he/she understand..(well, it may take long time if the person kind of Lembab species)
c) just keep quiet when he/she talk to u..do not response or maybe response a bit but not too interested kind of response
d) i can't think of anything else..Any idea reader?

3. I am Single..yes..some people just love jump into conclusion..and some of it soooooo pathetic..
a) kenapa TAK NAK kahwin?? hello..who says I Dont Want To get married..Of course I WANT...sigh
b) U tak nak ada anak ke?..sigh, I am normal women who were born with natural mother instinct..they just cannot see it...
c) The most outrageous question I ever had....
Are u a Lesbian??? Subhanallah...Usually I answer it with smile and if women were asking me,'why, are u interested in me?' if a guy..'are u a gay?'
Yes... I watched homo movie, read homo book,appreciate women beauty, holding hands with my girlfriends,hugs and kisses with them, it doesnt mean I'm homo myself....from my very own experience, a person who declare she/he homophobic is the person who are actually homosexual but they are just afraid to come out and reluctant to come back to the right path...may Allah guide all these species...
I watched FBI movie, read FBI book but I'm an engineer...

4. Do u try to correct someone who got wrong perception about you?
a) if it strangers...dont care, they dont even know who are
(stranger as my definition : relatives i dont like, frens who i consider just fren which their opinion doesnt bother me at all)
b) if it comes from close family n frens....need to be taken care of..

we stop here for today...will be back for new issue.. ;-)